After nearly three months of being on my own and breaking up with my ex-girlfriend, Brenda. I decided it was time to get out of the house, meet up with a new friend for coffee, apple pie and conversation last night. We shared similar life experiences and outrageous stories of our ex's. Our conversation's sailed by smoothly, friendly and down right pleasant. The night rolled by quickly and before we knew it, the night was coming to an end. It was 2 A.M.
These past several months with no negative text, emails or bullshit from her has been refreshing to say the least. A soft piece of mind is what I say about it. It's pretty bad when you have to block your ex from your phone and email to avoid conflict and pure meanness. Over the past three months my ex has reached out to me with a few emails that made it through and a I LOVE YOU CARD, via the U.S. Mail.
At the advice of a friend, I called her and un-blocked the ex to express an interest in returning our personal property and to say a final goodbye. I expressed to her that all I wanted was to be friends from here on out. I told her that she would always have a friend in me. She did not like what she was hearing one bit mind you and since Tuesday of last week, she has texted me, asking if I'm going to buy her dinner several times. To which I replied, "No Thank you." She even wanted a booty call to which I did not even return a text response.
Now, there is even more NEGATIVE LIES and BULLSHIT that she has put out there on Social Media today, (FACEBOOK) about me because she seen a picture of me with my new friend that was taken last night. She went on a rant about how she has spent more money in our relationship. What a lie! The bitch was always broke. How I'm mind fucking her because I called her after three months to return our personal property. I have no interest in keeping her things. I don't roll that way.
Since 2002 I have only dated two women and I married one of them in 2004. The ex was the first woman I dated since my divorce in 2009. My new friend is a friend only at this point and there's no rush, just being friends for now. It's okay for the ex to have many male friends but I'm not allowed to have any female friends. She displays that bipolar Double standard way of thinking. This girl always has to be the center of attention where ever she goes no matter who she's with. Those true mutual friends who ride with her knows what I talking about. If some of them heard the bad things that she has said about them, they would re-think their friendship with that two face liar.
The ex has been through at least ten different men within a five year period, including her ex husband, to which she was in and out of that relationship within three years. After that everything was his fault too if you remember her old posts. All her ex's are always the bad guy. She never owns her mistakes or wrong doings. I was not a bad guy and I treated her better than any of her other ex's, period. I hope she finds what she's looking for in life. She will never keep a good man until she adjust her FREE SPIRIT and being a wanna be player/cougar to men her daughter's age.
